I had the most humbling experience, I saw an interview of a refugee in the middle east living in a refugee camp and homegirl had the same exact winter blanket as me in the background.

God I need a friend to talk to. DH came through testicular cancer surgery fine, but he’s struggling with sex drive and of course feeling like he lost his manhood. I understand. I’ve tried so hard to be supportive and helpful. But he hasn’t spoken to me in weeks and when he finally did he said he’s struggling with me because I’m “too accepting”. And I didn’t even know what to say. Bc my first thought was “that’s ok, I understand.” But that’s clearly not what he wants from me. The problem is, I’ve no clue how else to respond. Am I supposed to be mean or say rude things like he used to do when my sex drive struggled after kids? I thought we’d both changed. He’s been a better person since then, and I don’t really do the whole you were shitty to me once so I’m going to do it to you thing. Idk. I’m tired.

Idk, I just need to get it out. DH found a lump last week and this morning was diagnosed with testicular cancer and has to have a testicle removed on Friday. No time to process, no time to even breathe. And don’t know how to handle this at all. When he called me, I asked if he was joking. I didn’t think that in a million years he would be serious about this. I just. I don’t know what to do.

I hate Christmas. I've always hated Christmas. This is the worst time of year imo. I can't wait for it to be over .

I welcome peace and health in my life.

I cheated on my bf of two years with a coworker. I feel bad for him but don't totally regret what I did

Can I do a bragging post? After putting myself through college, and frequently working two jobs, I just got to the point where I have 25x my annual spending. I'm retiring at the beginning of next year. I always hoped/planned on retiring when I hit 55, and I'm several years early. I am beyond excited. It took some hard work and a lot of luck. I'm not sure what to do first. Maybe a multiple week backpack trip. Or a bunch of road trips to visit friends. I can't believe I made it!

Mine did too. He's not a Trumper or anything, we never even talk politics, but oh well. I would just let it go. I never in a million years would vote for Trump but to each his own (shrug). No biggie in my opinion.

I just found out that my husband voted for trump. I am actually blindsided and devastated. I thought we were on the same page. I don’t even know what to think now.

And I just got notice that the IRS wants $5,000. Fuck.